考试前就一直想着所有final结束以后要为毕业写点什么， 只是考完后， 一来人慵懒了， 二来心情因为种种烦琐又不顺的事情，变得像我的房间一样凌乱， 难以整理。只是想想如果我再不写事后定会忘了自己现在的感受了， 我这么健忘的人。

     四年就这样一晃而过， 我的一些朋友说他们没有任何不舍， 没有任何特别的感觉， 毕业了， 仅此而已。 怎么能仅此而已呢？对于我们这些选择了先工作， 而且很可能再回学校也只是读MBA的人来说， 毕业真的就意味着校园生活离我们远去了呀。 我们再也不能早上赖床就翘课了呀，再也不能上课时把老师晾在一边躲在下面吹牛调情玩连连看读不相关的新闻为“是男人就跳到一百楼”的游戏还没有突破两位数就牺牲而抱怨了呀，再也不能完全由自己决定今天下课后几点回去了呀，再也不能任性地碰到合不来的人就避而远之了呀。。。。。。

    上面是玩笑话， 读书的好处何止这些？读书和工作毕竟是完全不同的生活状态， 完全不同的周边环境， 担负不同的责任， 和一群全新的人打交道， 他们不仅仅是家庭背景， 毕业院校， 或是年龄不同与你， 而且阅历经验脾气工作方式文化背景都可能不一样。 可能是你的上司或者team里的同事，你可以不服他（她）， 不满他（她），不喜欢他（她）， 不赞同他（她）, 却还是要和和睦睦地和人相处， 最多客客气气地婉转表达。 我不是很直接的人， 也不是很懂得掩饰的人， 可是我想真的让我遇到了这样的情况， 我会很不开心的， 而十有八九我还是会遇到的。

OK,言归正传，我其实只是想回顾一下四年的大学生活。四年被分割成在了三个地方， 漳州， 香港， 美国加州，中间因为实习，出工差和旅游去过广州， 宁夏和无数个地方，去机场的次数比回家的次数还多， 以至于那个一度向往漂泊自由的我如今厌倦了颠沛流离。 路怎么走总是自己选择的， 我当然不后悔， 动荡的生活有别样的收获，只是那份永远存在的不确定性让我紧张兴奋之余夹杂着些许无奈。本以为要在香港安定上几年了，计划有变， 我又要不知何去何从了。我开始觉得我总是认识很多的新朋友因为我总是换环境，可是能保持联系的越来越少，因为我懒也因为我打一枪换一个地方。似乎已经忘记了自己属于哪里了， 每个城市都能呆， 但似乎没有一个地方有家的感觉。

        Year 0在厦大， 其实一点归属感都没有， 原本不是自己的学校， 还要在一个与世隔绝的漳州新校区， 但是这毕竟是我离开家的第一年， 成长了许多。 自幼娇生惯养， 我觉得那一年的变化很大。 我至今仍记得自己打苦工送餐的日子， 戴着鸭舌帽， 顶着烈日， 汗流浃背，踩着单车蛮校区地跑， 十一点到两点，最多时一周四个中午都在干， 结束后稍稍休息或是冲个凉照常去上课。送份餐不过五角，外加老板包个午餐， 我当然不是图钱，只为体验。也许哪天我成名了写个自传什么还能加上这样一段有趣的经历， 哈哈！我和爸妈说那是我从小到大做的最让我引以为荣的一件事情， 那四个月开始变得独立，吃苦， 体会賺钱的艰辛和一些人的无知。 漳州的厦天热得令人晕眩，不少同学下课直接回寝室，开了空调打个电话叫餐， 然后我就忙开了。 我曾经接受过人鄙视的目光，于是我用更加鄙视的目光回敬。 我学会了怎样和刁蛮的食客打交道， 怎样和男生宿舍门口一脸胡疑的保安周旋， 怎样为我的店做宣传拉生意， 怎样利用自己的网络扩大店的影响， 怎样无视别人的目光和想法坚持自己的决定。。。有趣的是， 有两周我要考试实在太忙暂停了工作， 老板竟然找不到一个可以坚持超过一个星期的女生送餐员， 但是女生宿舍男生送餐员免进的， 于是我又被老板抓了回去， 才意识到自己并不像自己原本想的那么娇生惯养， 软弱无力。 很奇怪地， 每次回想起这段经历， 我就觉得我少有的自信一点点重现， 这种感觉不是好成绩， 比赛获奖， job offer所能给予的。也许这辈子我都不会再做一份类似的苦工了， 所以这份经历对我而言弥足珍贵。

    Year 1在港大 to be cont

         G came over, looking extremely excited, and introduced to me an amazing place he just got to know. I read it and concluded this wonderful idea does deserve admiration, and it will surely make the originally exceptional city Dubai even more spectacular!

 

This is the most rewarding course I have ever taken!

This is the best group I have ever joined!

You guys are the brightest and cutest partners I have ever met!

Cheers for our unforgettable "case study" days!

Cheers for Dr. Q Liu, Cheers for "Endorsed Tigers"!

I love you all!

 

Case Study 之　Leo "不吃不吃我就不吃！"篇

 

Case Study 之　George "365天，　天天有惊喜！"篇

 

 

Case Study 之　“我们也曾认真过！”篇

 

 

 

  老公，就是那个你将碗里吃剩的饭像倒垃圾一样倒进他碗里，而他还吃得像小猪一样欢天喜地的“傻男人” 。  

 

　　老公，就是那个白天吵架不理你、闹得不可开交，而半夜为你拉好踢开的被角的“小气男人” 。  

 

　　老公，就是那个钱包里只剩300大洋，却全力劝你买下700大洋你看中的一件衣服，帮你刷卡而自己顾不得买条领带的“笨男人”。  

 

　　老公，就是那个你偷懒跟他撒娇，要他为你倒水洗脚而明知中计还乐不可滋中套的“可爱男人” 。  

 

　　老公，就是那个冬天怕你脚冷，而将你一双没有洗的脚紧紧抱在怀里的那个不怕臭的男人，简称“臭男人” 。  

 

　　老公，就是那个吃了你放多了盐和辣椒的菜一边擤鼻涕一边猛喝茶，还不忘流着泪摇头晃脑说:老婆做的菜真好吃的“可怜男人” 。  

 

老公，就是那个星期六早晨你睡眼蒙胧去卫生间，他突然从门角跳出来抱你将你吓一大跳的“可恨男人” 。   

 

老公，就是那个你“老朋友”来时，默默为你泡好红糖水，帮你买卫生巾时怕被熟人看见而匆忙间抓错东西抱头鼠蹿回来挨骂的“倒霉男人” 。  

 

老公，就是那个陪你吃饭、陪你逛街、陪你回家、过马路紧紧牵着你小手的“三陪男人” 。  

 

老公，就是那个下雨时将自己外套脱下，用胳膊为你遮风挡雨自己一身湿的“大男人” 。 

 

老公，就是那个他有了你就不屑看其他女人一眼， 不屑和其他男人讨论其他女人的男人。   

 

　   女人，记住：老公，就是那个不让你吃亏的男人。  

    

 老公，就是不会让心爱的你伤心、流泪的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让你有了他而不屑看其他男人一眼的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个一向吝啬的你，舍得在他身上花钱而竟然不心痛的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让你星期六早晨放弃睡懒觉，而甘愿起床为他和他家人做早餐的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让从前心高气傲不食人间烟火的你，变成现在单位、家庭两点一线贤妻良母的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个看到别人的脏衣服都觉恶心，却将他穿一星期未换黑不见底的臭袜子洗得雪白而毫无怨言的男人。老公，就是那个你不顾一切阻力，为他受尽一切屈辱再穷再苦也心甘情愿跟他厮守一生的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让从不懂节约大手大脚的你，变成现在和菜贩子坦然砍价，宁愿多走二站路赶公共汽车的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让你每个空余时间都希望有他陪伴，出差后让你掰着指头数归期的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让你因为他感冒而心痛得流泪，看到他多吃一碗饭而开心的男人。  

 

老公，就是那个让在家烧饭你看到天外下了雨，而丢下一切拿起伞去给他送伞的男人。  

 

女人，记住：老公，就是那个你舍不得让他"吃亏"的

  

I haven`t been touched by a romantic comedy for long.

It`s actually not that unique, just like ordinary love movies: sweet lines, nice music, charming actors & actresses.

But just somehow, my tears flooded in the theater.

 

Touching plot:

Holly`s husband Gerry, was taken by brain tumor. He knew her life without him will be miserable for long time, so he delicately arranged 12 letters to be sent to his love before he left the world. Nobody knows Holly better than Gerry, so even he physically disappeared from the world; he is still around spiritually with his wife.

 

The director totally omits the period, when he might suffer a lot from his disease and Holly took good care of him. In contrast, Gerry in the movie is more of a role, who exists in the memory of Holly after God took his life but generously granted his love around with his beloved wife. And the most touching point, those letters, lovingly arranged by Gerry in his last period, seemed to make Holly tied to the past, indulged in the torture of losing her husband, but in fact, each letter is guiding her towards a brand new future.

 

11 years after their marriage, even though Holly married Gerry at 19, a premature age for decision-making, even though their combination were against by both parents side, even though they don’t have plans for kids due to the financial constraint, even though they often complain, quarrel, become impetuous and bad-tempered to each other, still Gerry told Holly ,

             " I know we’re going to last for long, because even now, every morning when I wake up, the first thing I want to see is still your face.”

And that might be resulting from the amazing force of marriage, when you spend that long period of time with a person, nobody knows you better than your partner. The connection might turn weaker due to various factors, but will never disappear if the couple decides to stay together because of their passion instead of habits or inertia only.

 

Holly`s mother: She once had passionate feelings for Holly’s father and married to him when she was quite young. The guy could always create joy in her life. She might have been a girl, who heard promises and sweet words every day, like other girls. But just one day, her husband left, abandoning her and the kids. And that’s why she told Holly.

      “You know the worst thing for a parent... second after losing a child? Watching your child head for the same life you had. You can't stop it. It's a terrible, helpless feeling. It makes you angry all the time. And I've been angry for a very long time. I'm exhausted.”

I guess Holly might feel angry too about her mother’s objection to her choice. But parents are parents, protection of their own babies precedes other things.

 

Phoebe (forgot her name in movie), the one in our familiar “Friends” joined the movie, still her, still stunning despite more wrinkles around the eyes, still plays a role, who posts touché comments, a little bit cyclical, but honest & straightforward. She hangs around in the bar, checking those randomly met, good-looking guys, if he is single, straight, currently working and last, but not least, whether he is a good kisser. Lack of any one of these 4 necessary conditions, out! Her male friend despised her giddiness.

 

She doesn’t care, she claimed,” after centuries of men looking at my tits in stead of my eyes and pinching my ass instead of shaking my hand, I now have the divine right to stare at a man's backside with vulgar & cheap.”

 

No idea if this type of extreme creature exists in the world, maybe yes, just beyond my social scope. If she does exist, I am wondering, she knows exactly what she seeks for, which is the quality rarely seen among ladies, does that mean the quarry, who finally got captured by her, can ultimately bring her the life she wants, the happiness she desires for?

 

 

Check the official website if interested:

http://psiloveyoumovie.warnerbros.com/PSILoveYou.php

 

 

 

 

（转贴）福州一中老师经典语录补完（鸣谢百度贴吧+广大一中人民） － 今日我以一中为荣，明日一中以我为荣

    http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/P-LuYZfkY0Y/

 

                The most stressful semester ever finally finally finally came to an end!!! Cheers!

 

          在一位高中学长的blog上面读到他给表妹的信, 转贴如下, 叹为经典. 学长简介: 福州一中校友, 大我两届, 澳门就读大学, 现就职于毕马威, 我大一暑假在广州毕马威实习时候认识, 极其幽默, 甚为投缘, 以毕马威帅哥多为由怂恿我加入公司, 保持联系至今.

       学长应该不会介意我转贴的哦? 实在太impressive 啦!

" 亲爱的表妹，

        今天一下班就冲去复旦听新东方老俞的讲座，然后回来一路上想怎么回你的邮件。今天在公司看到你的邮件很为你欣慰，但是没时间回你。邮件里你说，我和你追求的不一样。让我恍然大悟，我尝试以一个兄长来给你写信，想到什么就写什么吧，随性一点也亲切一点。我把这封信也贴在space，因为希望更多的人可以看到。

       北大光华管院曾经是我梦想但又不敢去想的地方, 而你在高中毕业就能踏进这座神圣而古老的殿堂，让我很是羡慕，所以当你写信向我询问工作的经历和四大的相关讯息的时候，我的内心难免焦急。但看了你的邮件，我释然也理解了你许多。

        我曾经在北大的招生网上看到介绍末名湖的文章，很美很美。我一直固执着认为那里浸透着北大人的精神，那里是最有魅力的地方，无论是温暖的阳光还是冰封的湖面。每年开春的时候，湖面坚冰融化，直到夏天湖面上铺满亭亭荷叶，我真希望自己能在那里坐一个下午，享受片刻的宁静，呼吸着古老的气息。曾经有个北大人唱过: 末名湖是个海洋，感动了无数的北大人，也感动着我。那里是北大的灵魂，也是浪漫的天堂。

        你比我想象的成熟，让我很是欣慰。你妈妈从小时候就喜欢让你在我面前炫耀你的英语能力，这让我直到现在我都对英语无比反感，但为了梦想我现在又不得不学。你要是愿意，你可以去新东方呆一段，那里你会遇到很多的朋友。老愈今天和我们说，要眺望到地平线外的世界。所以你说去交流我很支持你。回想3年前，我一个人独自踏上去欧洲的班机，开始我的交换生活的时候，那时的我是倔强的，尽管要独自面对学业的压力和各种琐事，但每当我回想起那段日子的时候，那时我一段难忘的经历，点点滴滴。我想，对你，一样也会是宝贵的。(深有同感!) 走进北大，到离开北大再回来，重新呼吸到古老的气息时，你将发现一个崭新的自己。

        北大是个有很多资源的地方，太多的眼花缭乱使得你迷失了自己失去重点，我之所以让你多参加活动，并不是让你盲目的去take activities，而是希望你能看到更多而发现自己的兴趣。你哥当年天天呆在图书馆，直到今天，我都懊恼不已。不要害怕迷茫，也不要被周围的环境所影响。希望把你的大学生活过得更加精彩和开心，而不是把大四找工作的烦恼提前到现在。过早的准备一件事，未必是好事(怎么说呢, 我现在后悔有些事情我没有早做准备, no pain no gain)。请相信，到时候，如果你还是选择四大，我会给予你最大的帮助。现在暂时迷茫的时候，试着放慢自己的脚步。如果光华的气氛过于严重，那么你尝试着走出来，看看外面的世界，会更精彩。

       大学里除了念书生活，还有2件事是一定要做的，读很多很多的书，谈刻骨铭心的恋爱。

        我倒是不愿在这里推荐你什么书，因为可能我喜欢的，未必适合你，我最近在读一些历史书，感觉好像走在历史的轨迹，看前人他们怎样生活，怎样创造着历史。老俞今天在讲座上问谁读过《明朝哪些事》，我很骄傲的举手，却发现那些还在校园里的学子们，却大多数没有读过，反而是我这个工作了的人读了。我曾经很得意地说，读万卷书不如行万里路，我现在收回这些话，要读万卷书也要读万里路，到时候你想进毕马威，我想，如果你能和合伙人谈10本你读过的书，那么我想他没有理由会拒绝你的魅力的。我希望你能看很多很多的书，什么书都可以看，黄色小说或者片片也可以看一点，其实女孩子比我们男生都还爱看，只是别看太多，要不然以后找BF很麻烦，因为你会很挑剔。 (???......)

        你才大一，居然把所有的心思花在工作上面，我是第一个极力反对的。你这样的年龄，应该至少在课堂上为一个男孩子走神，为一个男孩子翘课或者彻夜不眠。这四年时爱情最单纯的时候，你不应该像我当时一样放走它。喜欢一个人，要有勇气去喜欢他，也要有勇气去体会里开始后的心痛和泪水。要有勇气去体会告诉一个人你喜欢他。体会了这一切的一切，你会发现大学的生活一点也不无聊，充满了期待和活力，心里满满当当的。我希望你的大学生活幸福而难忘。你可以有很多很多的男朋友，但每次都要专一爱的铭心刻骨。(一个确实难以比较, 只是多过三个恐怕很难再认真投入啦) 找男友不一定要帅，俞敏洪当年在北大全班20多个女生每一个愿意搭理他，但20年过后的同学聚会，当年每一个女生都走来和他拥抱，你哥并不是羡慕老俞。二是告诉你一个道理，找男友要以老俞这样的为标准，比他更丑的那就是极品，何况现在美女都喜欢找丑男。所以像你哥这样的都是剩下的 (学长你又来啦?)。当然，你要是能找到一个像李彦宏那样的我也不反对。（千万别让你妈看到我的邮件，她会飞来上海杀了我的） (haha, I quite agree!)

       至于选专业的事，还是以自己喜欢的为主，其他的不用太多去想。毕竟在北大，学什么都很幸福。你妈当年因为担心广告系太多女孩子而不让你哥我选择广告专业，害你哥的人生失去了很多精彩，虽然后来我选择会计全班都是女生，但还是有遗憾。你不要重蹈我的覆辙。

        祝

天天开心

 

Special Thanks to my dearest parents, who always grant me unconditional love and support in every single second, minute, day, week, month during the past 22 years!

 

Many Thanks to every friend who sends me the super nice birthday wishes through SMS, mail, Email, MSN and Facebook wall post!

Icy cannot imagine her life without you guys! Unique gratitude to Crista, my angel, who is the sweetest, loveliest, the most kindhearted girl in the world and extremely biased towards me!

 

It’s been an incredible busy semester, long, fast-paced, stressful. My blog was almost abandoned.

 

But today I would write down my birthday wishes one by one!

 

Top 1 wish: Hope my grand parents suffer from less pain in the rest of their life. And my parents keep healthy!

I often feel guilty and upset for spending too little time home, less and less, year by year.

When grandma broke her back, I was not home;

When grandpa hurt his feet, I was not home;

When they miss me crazily and want to hug me in the arm, I was not home…

I have tried, tried to call them regularly, but still, I know they want me to be around, instead of just keeping in touch by phone.

I swear to myself that once I start to live on myself, I will pay all the medical expenses for them. I hope this day comes ASAP.

 

Top 2 wish: Walk towards future with you together

The relationship is so magic. You never know, when, where, how and who before it happens. But when the story actually started, I recall every little bit of the past and find out it’s just so natural to be together based on what we have shared so far.

I do cherish every minute spent with you together;

I do appreciate your accompany throughout the hard times;

I do never feel such strong connections with anybody else except my family before;

I do think you are super bright, extremly sweet, amazingly considerate and awesomely cute!

I do understand there are still uncertainties lying ahead and we might need to be separated in two locations, but I really have a faith, as you do!

 

Top 3 wish: Hope every friend of mine gets their desirable offer

The job hunting process is so dynamic that you never stop feeling upset. You see the hope looming, approaching, disappear, emerge again …… I understand how anxious it is waiting here.

Particularly, for us, it`s the first time we might feel so unsure of the future direction.

The junior middle school followed primary school, the high middle continueed after junior middle school, we entered university on completion of College Entrance Examination. Every step we have taken is just natural, we don`t even need to think about it, just follow. But now we are standing @ a crossroad, feeling a little bit lost, confusing, insecure, uncertain, unsure or even hopeless…

But as what my Dad said, it’s a process that you need to go through in your life. It`s reasonable to feel frustrated or worried, but we still need to face it and improve our mental stamina from the process!

 

Top 4 wish: I pray for the recovery of Cindy’s dear mother!

I really wish she can get rid of the cancer. She created such a great daughter like you, she should deserve a better life! Baby, cheer up! The morale is the key for patients. Giver her all your love, courage, faith and support together with my sincere pray and greetings!

 

Goodnight every one! Sweet dreams!

 

 

      中秋节快乐！！！

      开学两周了, 两个字形容 -- 折腾!

 

      I only like NYC at night, when I walked across the Brooklyn Bridge enjoying the rare serenity and feeling amazed by how brilliant this city could be when the night curtain befalls. Similar logic applies to Hong Kong. I found myself not used to its day time anymore.

               

     我不得不承认自己的确是一直很幸运的. summer intern又赶上出公差,还去了个大老远平时不会去的宁夏, 还正好碰上特别松的时间表和特别好客的西北人,于是被带着旅游了一趟宁夏著名景点:沙湖, 西部影视城和西夏王陵.